Mediation that
Creates Understanding
The Love Trials help people in long-term relationships—whether it be couples, co-parents or families—create a space for honest dialogue that helps to resolve conflicts, increase alignment and minimize future disputes.
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While any good mediator can resolve disputes, few can create the profound changes that happen within people who go through The Love Trials.
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We help people change how they see themselves and each other. ​That shift in perspective has a profound impact on each person and how they relate to one another.
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For example, people who are willing to listen and trust one another, no matter how little at first, are more open to dialogue instead of finger pointing, to curiosity instead of accusations, to compassion instead of contempt.
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​​​Our process can be adapted to the exact needs of each particular situation. The three most common situations we encounter are:
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Couples struggling to decide whether this is the end of the relationship;
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Couples wanting to break through the stalemate, resolve the past, and recommit to each other; and
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Former couples wanting to change their relationship dynamics for the sake of themselves or the children.
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We are often asked how we differ from couples therapy.
First, we are mediators, not therapists.
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And second, couples therapy can do wonders but only if both the participants and their objectives are aligned in what they want. Couples therapy is not designed to handle the conflict that arises when people have opposing desires.
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When people want change and therapy no longer works, people seek out The Love Trials.
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Our intensive, fact-driven process helps people understand themselves, each other and the relationship conflicts from an entirely new and wholesome perspective.
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The Love Trials incorporate the supportiveness of coaching and the precision of cross-examination to help people discover their their own truths and decide the future that best aligns with each of them.
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The Love Trials can be completed in as little as two weeks, saving years of anguish and potentially tens of thousands in unnecessary legal bills.
About Us
The seeds for The Love Trials were first planted when our founder, RoSho, was growing up with parents who constantly fought. He found himself reliving some of the same fights in his marriage years later.
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His efforts to understand the breakdowns in his marriage led him to therapy, both individual and couples. Yet, the questions, confusion and indecision remained.
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The therapy, when combined with years self-reflection and growth, helped him discover basic truths that gave him the courage to make a decision about his marriage that he has never regretted, even years later.
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With The Love Trials, RoSho helps couples find their own truths to decide their futures, knowing what they choose is right for each person.
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RoSho is a certified mediator and coach. Before starting The Love Trials, he was a litigation attorney for over twenty years.
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The Love Trials are based in Los Angeles, California.